Wednesday , April 8 2020

News Features: 75 years mother of eight cries out for help over harassment and oppression from her husband, Prince Albert Okojie

A 75 year mother of eight children, Mrs. Lucy Okojie, has raised an alarm over her husband’s plan to make her homeless by selling the house she built in Benin City, Edo State, Nigeria.

She narrated her ordeal to newsmen in Benin City, on how Prince Albert Okojie, a catholic Knight in St Paul’s Cathedral Benin-City, have sold her other properties and now threatens her life for refusing to give up the house she lives in Benin-City.

“He has sold three of my houses in Uromi and Benin. My question to Albert Okojie is, where does he want me to live with my grandchildren? Where does he expect my children to visit me?

According to Mrs. Lucy Okojie who is now looking distressed and older than her age, she was 13 years when she was betrothed to her husband and she started giving birth to her children when she was 15 years. “I was the youngest of three wives, we all lived together in Uromi, I gave birth to six children before we all moved from Uromi to live in Benin-City.

In her words, “The problem started when two of her children were diagnosed with sickle cell disease, my husband resented the fact that they were sicklers, and became verbally and physically abusive. I was left with the burden of taking care of them, when he was completely absent from their live, after he move in with his present wife, where he currently lives in G.R.A, Benin-City.

“Both of my daughters were constantly in and out of hospitals because of the frequent sickle cell crisis and infections, they required weekly blood transfusions and hospitalizations, during this period my husband was selling my properties, including the one in Uromi, unknown to me.

She disclosed that she started business with a restaurant in Uromi from 1967, adding that, “ I was a distributor to Sadia fish, distributor to Bendel Brewery, Guiness, Pepsi Cola, Coca-cola. I had a permit to slaughter cows at the abattoir in Oredo as well as being a distributor at Okpella salt and Okpella cement. I was able to raise money to build these houses because I was industrious and I worked hard when I was much younger.”

She further noted when her late father, who was a forest ranger helped to get her the land, measuring 200 by 100 on which the property he wants to sell was built, and advised her to give the money to her husband for the procurement of the land. “They were two twin buildings, I built with the same pattern for two of our sons, in GRA,” she added.
“I had trusted my husband so much then to the extent that all my documents including my baptismal certificate from St. Anthony Catholic Church, my modern school certificate, present day, primary six certificate and all the documents of the buildings I built and my children’s certificates are all with him.

I never imagined anything like this will happen after having eight children for him. Our goal was to build eight houses for each of my children, but I could only build four. At the time he was a building contractor, he was involved in the building of the houses, I trusted him, I allowed him to use his construction, called Bettytony Construction Company as sponsor for everything.

“After he sold the house at Uromi, I reported the matter to the HRH Anslem Edonojie, the Onojie of Uromi that my husband sold my house to IKD, but he lied that he built it. I swore before the king God that his one kobo is not in the house.”

“All I have labored for, including the houses I built have been sold by my husband who have vouched to sell the only house I have left. He has told people, he has the influence and money to render me homeless but I have since put my fate in the hands of God and Justice.”

“On numerous occasions, he has sent people to destroy the gate in my house, and brought police officers to arrest my relatives who lives with me. He even went as far as telling the DPO to detain and arrest my daughter and I, when we reported at the police station in G.R.A, claiming that he did not know us, but thank God his plans did not work”.

I am appealing to all Nigerians to ask Prince Albert Okojie, where does he want me to go at 75 with my health situation? The oppression and harassment is becoming unbearable, not only has he sold my properties but has also, claimed ownership of my houses because the documents were in his custody.”

“The Oba of Benin tried to intervene, but he refused to listen to reason. Our children tried to make him see reason, but he refused, instead he became defiant and vindictive because he was asked to kneel down before the Oba when I took him to the palace.”

“As a knight in St Paul Cathedral and a man, who graces the first morning mass daily, is treating neighbors with dignity and compassion not the doctrine that Jesus Christ admonishes in the bible?

“I decided to come out because my story could help other women who may be going through a similar situation to put an end to the discrimination, violence and oppression. I cannot see or hear properly anymore, despite the surgeries done, due to years of physical abuse.” She lamented.

“If Prince Albert Okojie knew he was incapable of running a polygamous home, he should not have married more than one wife. At 75 with two grand children living with me, where does my husband want me to go?”

“I am calling on all women Non Governmental Organizations, men who are against women discrimination, the government, and the youths to please listen to my cry which represents the agony of many voiceless women who are also undergoing untold pain.

“Today, I am living with a permanent damaged in one of my ear, and eye from years of physical abuse.” She added.
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  1. I feel very sorry for the lady whose husband has been tormenting her. One most sad in her complaint is that the OBA of Benin could not completely assist her on the ground for justice? Oba gha tor o kpere, Isee. I wonder if the Oba still thinks from the standpoint that woman has no right and therefore, would not care to see this lovely woman through on achieving her justice?
    I wonder reading through her misgivings that even the Onojie left her hanging!!!! This is very backward society and morally debilitating to anyone. To begin with, the Onojie needs to revisit this matter(s) and have that fool of goat dealt with by refunding all finances from the houses sold already to the woman and be completely banished from Edo state.
    Secondly, the fool needs to be kept in jail for such abominable actions already taken and continues to embark upon. How I wish I am back home, I would have carried my trumpet telling the story to all the state of edo and nigeria, putting everyone on notice if refuse to assist this lady. Now, Observer newspapers, you should make this an obligation to contacting everyone involved and having the story out every time till resolved.

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