PEOPLE sometimes say that you must believe in feelings deep inside. Otherwise you’d never be confident of things like “My boyfriend love me”. But this is bad argument. There can be plenty of evidence that somebody loves you. All through the day when you are with somebody who loves you, you see and hear a lot of little tidbits of evidence and they all add up.
There are outside things to back up the inside feelings: looked in the eyes, tender notes in the voice, little favours and kindnesses, this is all real evidence.
THEN WHAT IS LOVE ALL ABOUT?
Love is an untamed force. When we try to control it, it destroys us. When we try to imprison it, it enslaves us. When we try to understand it, it leaves us feeling lost and confused.
Love does not begin and end the way we seem to think it does. Love is a battle, love is a war. Any one who falls in love is searching for the missing pieces of themselves. So anyone who’s in love gets sad when they think of their lovers. It’s like stepping back inside a room you have fond memories of, one you haven’t seen in a long time.
Love does not consist of gazing at each other but looking outward together in the same direction. Love is a temporary madness, it erupt like volcanoes and then subsides. And when it subsides you have to make decision . you have to make out whether your roots have so entwined together that is inconceivable that you should ever part. Because this is what love is. Love is not excitement, it is not the desires to mate every second minute of the day. Love is not breathless. Love itself is what is left over when being in love has burned away and this is both an art and a fortunate accident. You cannot transmute love, it cannot be ignored and you cannot pull it out from your body because its what you can not do without, I mean it (love) leaves inside us. When someone you love does not cherish you it brings you down emotionally and you can also be mentally depressed. That is why you must know deeply what love is all about before falling love wounds and cures. Do not depend on men and women with all your heart because they can fail you someday. Love is attachment that results from deeply appreciating another’s goodness. Love is not all about sex, I love him or her but love is given, love is sharing, love is good, love is kind and love is of God.
Kindly think twice, before falling in love because it (love) wounds but takes time to be cured.
