The family is the first institution that God created for humanity. Therefore, the family is the cradle of every culture and society. Without families, there can never be a church, school, organization, or nation.
Every family is a nation. What happens behind the curtain of homes is what is displayed in the society.
Due to the pressure of living in an era of fractured family, not being deliberate about our family formation can lead to a dysfunctional society. The most important relationship in the family is the relationship between the man and his wife. As man and wife you have to intentionally work toward being teammates. The moment you are married, you are no longer two individuals but one flesh.
Marriage is not a solo act. To have a thriving intimate marriage, you and your spouse must work together to make it so. No marriage will thrive with only one person putting all the effort.
In teamwork, you must think in terms of “we” rather than “I”. Without teamwork with your spouse, you are just roommates and not purpose-mates.
As a teammate you look out for the interest of your spouse, not just your personal interest.
As a teammate you look for what is right for the welfare of the marriage, not just what you think is right for you as a person. Be more concerned about peace and unity than being overly concerned about being right and your spouse is wrong.
As a teammate you attack the issues, not your spouse.
As a teammate always have conversation that is clear and ensure your spouse understands and buys into the idea, even if with a different viewpoint.
As teammate you are playing in the same team, don’t act as if you are in the opposition party with the competition, argument, fighting, faction, debate and disagreement.
Playing as teammates in a marriage can have numerous benefits, including:
1. Improved communication: Working together towards a common goal fosters open and effective communication.
2. Increased trust: Collaborating and relying on each other builds trust and strengthens your bond.
3. Enhanced problem-solving: Teamwork promotes collaborative problem-solving and decision-making.
4. Emotional support: Supporting each other through challenges and successes deepens emotional intimacy.
5. Shared responsibilities: Sharing responsibilities and working together can reduce stress and create a sense of shared ownership.
6. Increased laughter and fun: Playing and working together can bring joy and humour to your relationship.
7. Greater understanding: Working together can help you better understand each other’s strengths, weaknesses, and perspectives.
8. Strengthened commitment: Collaborating as teammates can reinforce your commitment to each other and your marriage.
9. Personal growth: Working together can help you both grow and develop new skills.
10. A stronger sense of unity: Playing and working together can create a sense of unity and togetherness, fostering a thriving and intimate marriage.
Remember, teamwork in marriage is essential, and playing together can be a fun and exciting way to strengthen your bond and build a stronger relationship.
